Succinctly: - not an ass (e.g. hold door for strangers, help old people lift things, etc.) - open-minded and non-judgmental - former engineer - future physician - unencumbered both physically and psychologically - INTP I've always been fond of the quote: [I]"Be the change you wish to see in the world."[/I] Unfortunately, people with a similar mindset seem to be rare these days. A more modern philosophy seems to be: "Create an online persona; if you tout something often and in public, it must be true." Filter, Photoshop, or borrow any body you want. Lay claim to the personality and traits you admire. Plagiarize whatever background, skills, and talents you desire. Unsure of what sounds best? Read a few profiles and conform to the expectations of others. After all, life is only a game: play your role well and be rewarded. Rather than try to fit into the mold society creates for us. How about we learn about ourselves by observing other cultures, other people, and self-reflection. Discovering what makes one happy and, perhaps even more importantly, those things that make you unhappy is not trivial. Commonly, it is called life. For those who do not fit perfectly into mold society makes for us and have the courage to be themselves while changing the world, my prescription: a dose of hedonism, PRN.

My Ideal Person - has been hurt, repeatedly, because she loves the world a little too much.

- may relinquish control in the bedroom, but never in her own life.

- has likely suffered for her optimism, intelligence, empathy, and idealism.

- whose anticipation of the challenges I bring to her is a divining rod, pointing towards our room and bring liquid to her surfaces.

- who feels comfortable expressing her wildest thoughts, feelings, and desires; safe in the knowledge that I will never judge her, and strive to bring her dreams to life.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I live most of the year in one of the most beautiful places
on earth.. Where else can you have sex in a rainforest, on
4 different beaches, that i know of, within a minute drive,
and on on a rooftop... All in one perhaps? :)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Intelligence, kindness

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nope, never been into celebrities.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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